Before you can begin to heal from the physical, emotional, psychological abuse you have suffered you must realize that all forms of abuse create emotional and spiritual trauma that must also be dealt with. Human beings are made up of three parts; body, mind, and soul. Each of the three aspects of a human being must be tended to in order for that person to feel healthy and be happy. When any one of those three aspects is abused all three are affected and can have a dramatic influence on the person’s life.
Throughout this blog the words emotional and spiritual will be used to make the distinction between your feelings and what you believe. You can take the word spiritual to have a religious meaning or not. Either way you look at it will work. Read it the way that is right for you, no one can determine that for you. Each person has their own set of beliefs and those are not easily changed. Some think beliefs are religious or include religious aspects, and others don’t. Look at it which ever way is comfortable for you, no attempt is being made to change the way you believe.
Self-help and healing has become more popular in recent years for people that do not have problems that require the attention of medical and mental health care providers. You should however make sound decisions about seeking the services of trained professionals based on your personal situation and not follow any advice that you do not think is right for you without first consulting with a trained professional. You should not attempt to self-diagnose or allow others that are not trained professionals to diagnose for you. There are changes that anyone can make in their daily lives that will make them feel better, be happier, etc. that can be made without diagnosing a specific problem.
Most self-help books, videos, classes and sessions tend to be geared towards everyday common problems that most people feel. Domestic Violence Victims and Survivors however, tend to feel things differently than most people. Emotions get warped after suffering abuse, perceptions are thrown out of balance and life in general tends to be looked at differently by a person who has suffered abuse. With that in mind let’s begin to look at some of the most common areas that are affected.
Our needs, emotions, and beliefs are all areas where we can make positive changes to help in dealing with and then healing from trauma and abuse. These things are best looked at individually and then worked on together. However, you can start to work on each thing as you are looking through that area, if you feel that is best for you.
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Go Empower Yourself Through Gods Word: A Bible Study Guide for regaining your faith in God after abuse. Are you mad at God? Do you feel like He has turned His back on you or maybe that He doesn’t exist at all? If you answered either of these questions with a yes or even a maybe, then these Bible studies are written for you. Through our abuse, we often loose our faith in God and often we will find ourselves questioning everything to do with Jesus. You can get back in touch with God; in fact, He wants you to. Jesus understands our pain and our suffering and can’t wait for us to reach for Him. FREE Download
Reiki Level I Guide: This Level I Reiki course will allow you to learn Reiki at your own pace. You can choose to submit course work for evaluation. I am available to you throughout, to help you or answer questions. The goal of this Reiki Level I Course is to teach you to connect to the energy that we are all born with, which can be used for healing. You will learn what Reiki is, the history, a brief overview of Chakras, techniques for using Reiki, and the legalities and ethics involved with using Reiki to heal others. There are four assignments and a final exam, two of the assignments involve writing and two involve case studies. This course and the Level I Attunement are FREE. If you need a certificate of completion, I ask that you make an offering to cover the postage. I will not give certificates to those that do not submit course work, regardless of whether you were attuned or not. I also will not email certificates. All certificates will be sent through the postal service. FREE Download
Self-Healing from Trauma Series: Stop just surviving and start healing! Healing the trauma of an abusive relationship can be difficult. At times you may think that you will never be able to be the person you were before or even the person that you want to be. This is partially true; you can not go back to being the person you were before. You have been changed but you have also been made stronger along with this change. No one chooses to be abused, but you can choose to heal from abuse! FREE Online
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Reiki Healing Attunement: Attunements are a great way to get a pick me up. The process for this is much the same as a regular Usui Reiki Master Attunement except for the intention is set for healing. A healing attunement usually takes about 30 minutes. Use this contact form to request an attunement, be sure to give me the date and time you would like your attunement, reason and an email address to send you preperation information. I will NOT ever spam you, I promise!
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Tailored Life Coaching is a holistic and spiritual ministry for Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Survivors. TLC caters to those on various personal and spiritual paths and in various degrees in the healing process.
TLC provides DV & SA Survivors access to life coaching services, in both personal and group settings, and both on-line and in person. Sessions are tailored to meet the needs of the person or group, provide materials and guidance in a self-help manner, and promote healing and self-growth in all aspects of a survivors life.
Life coaching is not counseling or therapy; or even advice. Counseling and therapy both look into the past and try to diagnose a problem then fix it and giving advice is basically telling someone else what they should do, instead of letting them figure it out.
But life coaching looks at the present and towards the future, by helping you make goals that are attainable and then striving to reach those goals, with the help, encouragement and support of the coach.
I use various methods to assist my clients; some of the tools I employ are active listening, relaxation techniques, exercise and healthy nutrition information, spiritual guidance and Reiki. For information on what I provide please visit the Services and Products pages. At this time all services and products are free for DV/SA victims, survivors and their families.
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